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You can love someone unconditionally and get drunk and sleep with someone else. Then wake up and hate yourself for it. People are weak to their innate urges, some weaker than others. What if you're trashed on a work trip and an OT 10 is begging you for your dick?

no offense, but what a load of immature rationalizing shite.

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I also think if we were raised to be accepting of sleeping around, we wouldn’t think twice about it.

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And no, I was raised to be monogamous and I could never accept my wife sleeping with another dude. frick. That. But I am not everyone.

completely contradicting yourself.

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Posted by TheCaterpillar

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Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:52 pm to tigerinthebueche

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completely contradicting yourself.

I'm saying that I wasn't raised to be ok with it, but someone else might be. That was my point.

Monogamy might not be the "normal" for someone else.

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Posted by TheCaterpillar

Member since Jan 2004

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Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:54 pm to tigerinthebueche

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no offense, but what a load of immature rationalizing shite.

None taken. I am just saying others might not be the same as you. I think people do shitty things to people they love allllll the fricking time and regret it for the rest of their life.

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I also think if we were raised to be accepting of sleeping around, we wouldn’t think twice about it.

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This was a different thought than my first. If you grew up in a household with several moms and dads, that would be normal to you. If you grew with swinger parents and they taught you "swinging is the right way to be" you'd be pretty cool with it.

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