re: How to break free from monogamy without destroying marriage

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I dont care how they want to justify it. Either you love someone and are committed to them, or youre not. Either you have integrity and honor, or you dont.

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I actually completely disagree. You can love someone unconditionally and get drunk and sleep with someone else. Then wake up and hate yourself for it. People are weak to their innate urges, some weaker than others. What if you're trashed on a work trip and an OT 10 is begging you for your dick?

I wouldn't ever do it, but I don't think that means you love the other person less. It just means you lack self-control.

I also think if we were raised to be accepting of sleeping around, we wouldn’t think twice about it. In your eyes its bad and impossible to love someone and be committed to them and still sleep around, but your eyes aren’t everyone’s eyes.

The issue is these websites are filled with people getting their rocks off behind their significant other's back and not being open with each other.


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And no, I was raised to be monogamous and I could never accept my wife sleeping with another dude. frick. That. But I am not everyone.