re: Break it down - your finances

Income: Unknown

Rent: $1,250 (will be moving in June 2016. possible buying a house or renting until we find what we want to buy)
Car notes: $950
Auto Insurance: $240
Rent and Jewelry ins: $60ish maybe
Groceries: $500
In House Nanny: $1,500 (not live in, comes every day at 7am)
Wifes Student Loans: $2,100
401K: trying to max, but 401k was penalized last year due to a contribution problem, so lets just call it $1000
Other investments: $2,000 (probably closer to 3,000 last year but having to pay for nanny this year)
Eating Out: $600 (we eat out a lot so this is probably not accurate. Dominos was delicious yesterday)

i don't even want to talk about taxes. was in a freaking 28% tax bracket this year.

outside of having to pay for a nanny i am pretty frugal. wife on the other hand likes nice things
. in a couple years she will be able to pay for whatever she wants though.