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told my mom this last time we got on this issue. i told her that those guys are taking a major risk that they won't be in financial distress with a bunch of kdis around and hit the dating market in their early-mid 30s. i refuse to take that risk. i will take the chance i can find somebody when i'm more settled (the risk is that i never marry and face loneliness in my old age). it's much better than taking the other risks by early marriage and breeding. divorce after that DESTROYS many guys

I'm pretty much in the same boat. I think I'm better off for it.

It's ironic because I think I take the concept of marriage much more seriously than a lot of people that are already married. The possibility of doing it more than once isn't something I'm remotely open to. So my first one better be a good one, if it ever happens of course.

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Posted by tiggerthetooth

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Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:05 pm to Goldrush25

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It's ironic because I think I take the concept of marriage much more seriously than a lot of people that are already married. The possibility of doing it more than once isn't something I'm remotely open to. So my first one better be a good one, if it ever happens of course.

Exactly my thoughts. I am rather shocked at the circumstances surrounding various people that I've known that got married early 20s. Some were spot on and made sense, but I think in some there's the "oh-shite-college-is-ending-everyone-is-getting-engaged-I-should-too" groupthink going on. Maybe thats why it seems everyone is getting married at the same time. I would never let other people effect when I get married.

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