re: Have any of you had a child die ?

I lost my older brother over 10 years ago, and I can't imagine the dark valley that my parents walked through in grieving his death. They still morn his death, but they don't dwell on the "what if's" and they just focus on his wonderful life that he lived while he was alive.

The only consoling that really means anything during times of sorrow are from those that simply embrace you and don't try to say empty words to break the silence.

Sorry for your loss...