re: Have any of you had a child die ?

That is exactly what she did. We have had three kids after Brandon passed. He was 16 weeks premature. My wife has a incompetent cervix, meaning when the baby would reach a certain weight the cervix will open up. I remind my kids every time we talk about their big brother that he died for them to live. If he wouldn't have ever been born than my next oldest would have to suffer his fate. Truly ultimate love