re: Have you ever wanted to beat the crap out of your best friend?

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How could anyone be so selfish? Why the frick didn't he call me if things were that bad?

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In his mind, it wasn't selfishness that led to the act. Believe me. And again, from his point of view, the last thing he'd do is call someone close to him. Very, very difficult to understand or accept, but in his mind, not reaching out was the best solution for all.

Again, I'm giving just a bit of insight as to what was probably going on in his mind.

Don't beat yourself up. Grieve in your own way, as you should. And above all, may God bless you and all involved with love, grace and the strength to come to terms with this sad situation.