re: Question for those who have lost a close relative

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I've lost Grandparents,my Dad when he was 56 and I was 28.

I guess people feel a need for closure and maybe they can't get that when they don't know where their loved one is.

I certainly wouldn't want anyone to risk their life to recover a dead relative.

Some cultures may feel the need to have a body to mourn more than ours'.

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this ...

i don't think i would demand that type of risk, but i'm not asian/etc ... wanting to see a loved one for one last time is not incomprehensible ...

there are no rules for handling death ...