re: I need some honest relationship advice

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So don't wait on her and do what I want...

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Well, yeah.

And, so WHAT, if you are a "backup plan" this weekend or this week or this month or this YEAR? Let her do her own thing. She's not hurting anything.

Seems like you are in love with her and you want to possess her now. Nothing wrong with having feelings for her, but, you have got to fix the part about wanting to possess her NOW.

Why can't you look at things more objectively? Why can't you be more DE-tached ? You are acting like you two are attached at the hip or something.

Give that fillie freedom from your demands. Let her see other guys. Once she gets married, all that ends.

You two care about each other. That's not going to go away unless you push and pressure her into giving up her freedom.

The more you try to possess her the more she's going to run from you.

She's not going anywhere. She'll be on Earth for years, probably. So will you.