re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?

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If I should be extremely pissed off when I see her next or act like it is no big deal.

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WTF dude. Make up your own damn mind. Either you're pissed or you aren't.

If you break now and act pissed on the phone, all the being ok with it will be for naught. Only way to salvage is to act cool and supportive as shite. She will bang you when she first gets the chance. Unless she decides to cancel her plans with you altogether or lingers around the ex for too long after the funeral. Then drop her arse. But if you are cool and she hurries to get back to you, you look like a boss and she is under the impression you trust her.

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ctiger69

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This whole situation stinks bud. Judging by the facts, the PIIHB crowd is likely wrong. It is feasible that they open the talking channels.

I would be more upset about the change of plans and the lack of respect for you than the actual going to the funeral. 8 years is a long time, definitely long enough to get emotionally attached to family outside of the actual boyfriend. This just has "walk all over you" written all over it, and that lack of mutual respect isn't healthy unless you are leaving out the fact that you two had an actual conversation with everything on the table. I doubt it though considering the existence of this thread.