re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?

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The ex's mom showed up at her work yesterday

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I just re-read and picked up on this gem....

W T F? So the ex's mom, who's mother just dies, takes the time out of her day to go to your gf's workplace and pressure her into attending?

Look c, I'm not being an OT a-hole here but your relationship is in real trouble....think for just a second.

1.ex is constantly contacting her (she shows you emails but he is doing more than emailing her! You really think he's not texting/going by as well?)

2.ex's mom goes by her work to add to her guilt? The mom, who is supposed to be devastated goes see your gf? YOU HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS TO US! Why wouldn't she be 90 minutes away making arrangements/being at in-laws side?

3. She feels more indebted to the ex's family needs than your family's needs?

I have no clue if you are trolling, but if not you should prepare yourself for what's next....your breakup.

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I don't understand why?

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At this point, yes.....yes you do