re: O-T, I Need Some Advice.

Don't mean to be insensitive, but welcome to literally 95% of our lives. This past year I went through the exact, EXACT, same thing.

First off, it's natural for her to feel like she does. But that doesn't matter.

1. Easy sex with someone you're comfortable with is a great thing.
2. Always feels good to be missed or whatever.
3. Someone smarter than me has figured out that after time our brains subconsciously block bad things that we experience in life and tend to keep good memories at the forefront.

In my case, keeping my ex around was destroying my new relationship, so it was a pretty bad setup.

You'll get a shite ton of "sex with the ex is a horrible idea!" comments in here but if you stay on top of how you feel for her then frick it, keep having sex with her if you're enjoying it.

Just be conscious of how you feel towards her. There's a good chance that her not being over you is just a product of some things that might not translate into a healthy relationship if y'all get together again.

If you know what you want, you can't lose.