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re: GMT: It's Friday!
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:49 am to HoustonChick86
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:49 am to HoustonChick86
edited.
Wow,I'm so sorry.God Bless you.
Wow,I'm so sorry.God Bless you.
This post was edited on 9/19/14 at 9:53 am
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Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:50 am to Deep Purple Haze
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hc, i'm sure he would appreciate you checking up on him occasionally
Yeah especially if he was close to the family like you said... and if he has a new woman and she has a problem with you talking to him then she's a count.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:51 am to Deep Purple Haze
quote:I agree with this.
hc, i'm sure he would appreciate you checking up on him occasionally
If he were close to the family, I am sure he has is own reserves as well. Healing takes time.
<3
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:52 am to terd ferguson
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On the flipside, if I were the guy that dated your sister when all this went down and you wanted to talk to me from time to time I wouldn't have any problem with that. Sometimes it's good to talk about shite and remember the good times.
Yeah. Contact may fizzle out eventually, but I DEFINITELY wouldn't be freaked out by their family keeping in touch with me.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:52 am to hendersonshands
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I don't think it would be fair for him to have you blow up on him about trying to get past a horrific moment in his life.
I think you read it wrong... sounded like she was saying that she was worried that she would freak the new gf out.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:52 am to terd ferguson
quote:Truth. This new girl needs to understand or ship the frick out. JMHO.
and if he has a new woman and she has a problem with you talking to him then she's a count.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:53 am to hendersonshands
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, I don't think it would be fair for him to have you blow up on him about trying to get past a horrific moment in his life.
I read it that way the first time too, but that's not what she meant. She didn't want him or his new girlfriend to be freaked out by her reaching out.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:53 am to terd ferguson
Oh Ok, yeah I wouldn't be worried about that. If she gets mad, she can frick right off.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:57 am to hendersonshands
Morning guys
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:57 am to HoustonChick86
Real talk, HC... you should reach out to him. I don't know if he has FB or some way you could send him a simple message: "Hey, I just wanted to check in on you and see how you were doing. If you feel like talking here's my number"
It hasn't been that long so he may be going through some similar things as you... like asking himself "why?" or wondering if there was something he could have done differently.
He might be looking for someone to talk to and he might feel out of place reaching out to you first.
It hasn't been that long so he may be going through some similar things as you... like asking himself "why?" or wondering if there was something he could have done differently.
He might be looking for someone to talk to and he might feel out of place reaching out to you first.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:58 am to hendersonshands
Sorry. Should have read the thread. Not time for sexual humor like that. My apologies!
This post was edited on 9/19/14 at 10:00 am
Posted on 9/19/14 at 9:59 am to Pectus
Pectus, you're typing on the OT... I think you mistook this for gchat.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:00 am to terd ferguson
My bad. Keep on chatting.
Solid advice, btw. You're compassionate!
Solid advice, btw. You're compassionate!
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:01 am to Pectus
I'm nice to people that I like. You on the other hand can GFY.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:03 am to HoustonChick86
I'm sorry chick :(
I would probably check on him from time to time, see if he needs to talk
I would probably check on him from time to time, see if he needs to talk
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:04 am to terd ferguson
The thing is we have been close through this whole process. When do I stop randomly saying hey and checking in?
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:06 am to HoustonChick86
you don't have to stop. you can be friends with the guy forever. you have a certain bond with the guy.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:10 am to terd ferguson
You've been nice to me before. Actually I may have confused that for you encouraging destructive behavior in me. 
@HC, realistically, I'd slow down the support when they start to ignore you...and by that I mean longer to get back to you/respond. Only of course if you know they are in a good place.
@HC, realistically, I'd slow down the support when they start to ignore you...and by that I mean longer to get back to you/respond. Only of course if you know they are in a good place.
This post was edited on 9/19/14 at 10:11 am
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:13 am to HoustonChick86
I would say keep doing it for as long as you feel the need to... 
I guess if it gets to a point where he's no longer comfortable he'll let you know.
I guess if it gets to a point where he's no longer comfortable he'll let you know.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:25 am to terd ferguson
Good point. Sorry, I had a breakdown.
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