re: So my wife and I have started looking for a house

I have a couple that I am friends with, that have two steady careers, they are great with my kids, and I think they would be terrific parents. But they have made the decision to not be parents, and they have taken certain medical steps to ensure that will not happen.

They spoil the heck out of their nieces and nephews and the kids of their friends.

I respect that decision and I don't question it. It's their life.