re: How many of you do not know your parents or have not seen one or the other for a

My father passed away 20 years ago. One day several years ago, my wife asked me a question that I had never thought about. She asked me if when I think of my dad, do I vision him the way he looked when he died, or do I see him as an older person like he had aged over the years. I had never thought about that, but I definitely only think of him the way he looked 20 years ago. I had never even thought about him aging if he was still alive.