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Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:22 am to SallyWheeler
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It's been 4 months, but I am not sure the friend knows. Haven't seen him since football season.
If they don't know, they don't want her there. No offense of course. Setting the guest list is a pain in the butt, and unfortunately a line has to get drawn somewhere.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:24 am to LNCHBOX
It's an incredible pain on the butt, and as thorough as you try to be, you are guaranteed to accidentally leave a person or two off.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:25 am to SallyWheeler
Ask for a copy of the guest list, and choose your date from there. Maybe the wedding is being sponsored by match.com
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:26 am to SallyWheeler
i say bring her...do they expect you to go to a wedding by yourself, with no one else. or is it a group of guys that are all invited and they expect all the bro's to go together. and to be honest, you wont have a pissed off bride because in all likelihood she wont even notice.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:27 am to SallyWheeler
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It's been 4 months, but I am not sure the friend knows. Haven't seen him since football season.
I would casually ask in person or over a phone call. If you're not close enough with the person to do this or don't feel comfortable, I think you already know the answer.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:28 am to Happygilmore
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i say bring her...do they expect you to go to a wedding by yourself, with no one else.
Um, frick no. Extra people cost money. It's incredibly rude to bring someone that isn't invited.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:28 am to SallyWheeler
Bring your so just don't let her eat anything. It will work out the same
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:29 am to SallyWheeler
They probably think you are still single. Don't bring her unless you ask your buddy about it first.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:29 am to Jack Daniel
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Bring your so just don't let her eat anything. It will work out the same
No it won't. Most places charge by head count.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:30 am to Happygilmore
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i say bring her...do they expect you to go to a wedding by yourself, with no one else. or is it a group of guys that are all invited and they expect all the bro's to go together. and to be honest, you wont have a pissed off bride because in all likelihood she wont even notice.
I've been to some weddings lately where I notice someone greeting people at the door, but they have a small clicker in their hand where they are counting the guests.
If everyone just ignored the invite and brought a date, it would end up costing a ton.
You pay per head..
And while I personally would sacrifice inviting acquaintances so my good friends that are single could all bring dates, I see why people don't.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:31 am to LNCHBOX
Ok then, well hang a sign on her saying "I am not eating"
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:31 am to SallyWheeler
Not giving someone a plus one to a wedding is trashy as frick IMO, if they don't like you enough to let you bring a date they should have just not invited you
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:31 am to Happygilmore
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i say bring her...do they expect you to go to a wedding by yourself, with no one else. or is it a group of guys that are all invited and they expect all the bro's to go together. and to be honest, you wont have a pissed off bride because in all likelihood she wont even notice.
yeah... dont listen to this dude.
we are planning our wedding right now. shite is expensive. food + drink + chairs + whatever the frick else all costs money. You are looking at about $75-$100 a person.
we are trying to kep it below 90 people and the invitations will be specific. If you were meant to bring a guest, the invitation would have referenced it.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:31 am to Jack Daniel
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Ok then, well hang a sign on her saying "I am not eating"
It doesn't matter. Is she also not drinking? And even if not, it still doesn't matter.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:32 am to LSU-MNCBABY
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Not giving someone a plus one to a wedding is trashy as frick IMO
disagree. if you are having a small wedding (close family and friends), i totally understand not wanting random S/Os that you have never met to attend.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:32 am to LSU-MNCBABY
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Not giving someone a plus one to a wedding is trashy as frick IMO, if they don't like you enough to let you bring a date they should have just not invited you
With that attitude I can tell you've had no part in planning a wedding.
This post was edited on 6/23/14 at 9:33 am
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:33 am to More beer please
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Ask first or don't bring one
Posted on 6/23/14 at 9:34 am to LNCHBOX
Got married 2 years ago, we gave everyone we invited plus ones and cut the guest list down accordingly.
If the person getting married is above the age of 25-28 no one wants to roll solo to a wedding or tell the girl they are dating they can't come
If the person getting married is above the age of 25-28 no one wants to roll solo to a wedding or tell the girl they are dating they can't come
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