re: Living/passed grandparents - different treatment (Alzheimer involved) ...TL:DR

Yes I am going through a similar situation with my parents, both in their late 80's. Mom has moderate Alzheimer's and Dad is extremely frail with mobility problems, a host of health issues, on oxygen and now dementia. They are in assisted living and don't like it. I am the closest family and I am 3 hours away. Our support has come from the social workers, PT and the doctor at the memory care clinic. At least they are still together sharing a room. This is hard on the whole family.