re: Living/passed grandparents - different treatment (Alzheimer involved) ...TL:DR

going thru that situation right now with my FIL (in a facility) and MIL who is coherent, yet her short and long term memory is deteriorating each day

we try to remember the positive things from years past, yet the present sucks . we know the inevitable and dread the day we get "that call"

reach out to family and your support group to get through the difficult times . talking about it is positive, suppressing your feelings only makes it worse

prayers sent brother