re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

wow, aren't you cynical

it's not a troll

answer your questions:

my age? none of your business
am I gay? no
where does she live? she had to move in with her mom
income? i have no idea
female cousin? lives in texas now
woman in my life? I'm happily single at the moment

No, not cynacal..just honest..

Your age does matter, because something is WAAAYYYY off with the story. And to give you advise, we need to know what demographic we are talking to.

Did you talk to her mother? Why is BF in jail? Do you personally know the BF? How?