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So wait, this so called doctor is telling people it's OK to screw around on your wife or person you're involved with in a committed relationship? How about the vow? What's he say about our normal propensity to breaking promises? Completely normal? What kind of degree does this quack have?

He's an MD off Essen lane. Psychiatrist. I only went once as I didn't want to cheat no mo.

But it's just a monkey wrench in this whole what's an addiction, what's normal, etc.
His point was there are levels of urges and that many marriages survive by one or both spouses getting that one little thing they don't get at home.
And that the side action serves a greater purpose of keeping marriage stable all that hubbub for the kids' sake and such.

I don't agree with him. Like I said, I went once.

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Posted by Mike da Tigah

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Posted on 6/12/14 at 10:10 am to mikelbr

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He's an MD off Essen lane. Psychiatrist. I only went once as I didn't want to cheat no mo.

But it's just a monkey wrench in this whole what's an addiction, what's normal, etc.
His point was there are levels of urges and that many marriages survive by one or both spouses getting that one little thing they don't get at home.
And that the side action serves a greater purpose of keeping marriage stable all that hubbub for the kids' sake and such.

I hear ya. I guess it's the broken vow thing I take more issue with, that it's OK to hurt someone you're in a committed relationship with by cheating on them and breaking your vow to them as long as they aren't told and don't find out about it. That's a real fricked up thought process all by itself, with nothing to do with the actual sex part. The condoning and approval of it as a psychiatrist giving them an out.

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