re: My girl found my ex's pants in my bedroom

I'll be honest, I think you're lying about something...not sure what though.

You saying your ex never called about leaving a nice pair of dress pants?

Also, one poster was dead on...the way you act and what you say will dictate this relationship forever. Be a man! IF you are being honest, you should act honest and be pissed at her reaction and call her the frick out on it!

Something to the tune of "look, I like (or love if yall are there yet) you a lot and miss you when you aren't here....but if this type of mistrust is your reaction to situations you aren't sure about, then I'm not quite sure we should continue to see each other".

She will either bolt or apologize immediately with sex! Whichever happens, you are in control of what's important, your dignity and self respect.