re: Would You Take Your SO Back if Caught Cheating With Another Man

Bencoleman

I know that sick feelings well. I guess the best way I can over simplify my own experience with that sick feeling over the past 25 years is I hsve gone from feeling it every waking moment to several times a week to several times a month to a few times a year. My wife's spiritual, psychological and physical growth since those bad times nearly 30 years ago has enabled me to see the strength she has and there have been many times in the past 25 years she has helped me immensely. Overcoming her revelation to me was a long process and I guess just like grieving the death of someone you are very close to you never really " get over it" but you can choose how you handle any situation.

There was a time I used to wonder how I could handle seemly impossible situations (deaths if patents and friends, my wife having an affair, etc.) and dreading the thought that any of those situations would happen to me. Here I am 30+ years later having faced many of those things on that "seemingly impossible list" and I found out that I didn't have to deal with any of those traumas alone. That has been the key.