re: Do women give gifts

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you buying gifts, flowers, and she is providing your gift in the bedroom

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Just seems like a fricked up paradigm to me. I'd never want to be in a situation where I have to work for sex. Isn't it supposed to be a mutual pleasure? I'd want my wife to have sex with me because she enjoys it, not because she's using it to reward me for what she deems is correct behavior.

I guess this is one of the reasons why marriage scares the frick out of me in the first place. That whole carrot dangling system just breeds resentment.