re: People are born Gay, but are trained to be Feminine or Masculine?

Yea. Too often the focus is on whether or not they are born that way (and that's the fault of both sides). For whatever reason, some people believe that if they weren't born that way, it must be a choice. I don't think that's the case either.

And as for those who cite examples of kids who were made to do "girly" things and then turned out gay, how do you explain the professional athletes who are starting to come out? It's definitely possible they put on a masculine front, especially in their line of work. I can't say I would blame them for that. But just to get where they are in their sport, I don't think they would have gotten there by being a closeted Liberache type gay.