re: Yahoo article on Alfred Blue comments

Taking offense at calling a gay man a sissy is like taking offense at calling the sky blue. I'm old, I've known or met hundreds of openly gay men and 100% of the white ones have been just over the top effeminate. The way they talk, walk, run, throw, for God's sake the way they smoke a cigarette - pretending they're not sissies is an utterly absurd lie. Most gay black guys are the same, but I have met two exceptions. Two black guys that you would never guess were gay.

I feel entirely comfortable around gay men, even in a locker room situation. That doesn't make them less effeminate.