re: Crackpot ASOIAF Theories SPOILERS

Its my pet crackpot theory. I come to this conclusion by way of clues from a couple different unreliable narrators.
First Barristan Selmy thinks back on his life and things he should have done, namely telling Ashara Dayne that he loved her.
Then he thinks about how he should have consoled her after Ned Stark dishonored her. We know Ned would do no such thing, and we know Aerys wasnt above getting a little rapey.
Selmy reflects back on how different things might have been if he instead Rhaegar would
have won the tourney at harrenhall.
We also have Doran Martell calling Darkstar the most dangerous man in Dorne. What could possibly make him more dangerous than the red viper?
Add it all up, and I come to thw conclusion that I came to.