re: The results of no consequences are being seen today.

I don’t spank my daughter. Everyone on her mom’s side would swear I must beat her because I never have any problems. I count to one and she’s moving. Have no idea what will happen at 3. While I command respect and depending on the situation how she should act, at home I understand she’s 5 and let her be a kid. Let her pick out her own cloths no matter how mismatched she looks. I talk to her instead of yell and let her be creative even if it’s messy.
Her mom…. Complete opposite and gets disrespected ignored etc…. But when I’m around he reverts back to my house.