re: 12 Year Old Girl with BPD

Hate to hear this. I know from personal experience is tough to deal with. Winning the battle starts with realizing God is the only one who can work this out. Pray every moment of every day that you can. Go to War in prayer. Find a licensed Christian therapist. If she starts meds then she has to understand meds alone aren't the answer. If she is going to take them then she has to be consistent or it does more harm than good. Her therapist needs to help her get into other good habits like 8 hrs of sleep a night, waking up at same time, eating 3 healthy meals, getting outside every day in the sun, walking or some other form of exercise. It all has to work together. But you win in prayer. As bad as you want to help it's important for you to know you have to let go of control so God can take it.