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How sentimental are y’all?

Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:09 pm
Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:09 pm
Kind of a soft question, but I went to an estate sale this weekend and was kind of floored that these folks’ survivors (I know they had several children and grandchildren) were prepared to just scatter all this (very nice and presumably heirloom) stuff to the wind. I know I’m more sentimental than the average bear, but what are y’all’s thoughts on family heirlooms, making space in your home/life for this stuff? Assuming it’s actually nice stuff and not post WWII crap. For clarification purposes, I’m a Millennial.
This post was edited on 4/28/24 at 10:16 pm
Posted by Turnblad85
Member since Sep 2022
1316 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:10 pm to
Stuff is just stuff. Memories are where its at.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
72201 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:11 pm to
Us younger generations don’t hoard like boomers.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22662 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:12 pm to
Was recently faced with this, though most of it wasn’t valuable or frankly very nice. Some of the furniture but truthfully, no one wanted it or more directly needed it or had room for it. I’m 50+, I don’t need more stuff from my 70+ year old MILs estate.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124677 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:20 pm to
I had an ex gf wash a shirt of my brother's I kept. Just to smell his scent every once in a while.

I could have slapped her for that. shite I can never get back.

I probably attach too many memories to things, but I do.
Posted by Eighteen
Member since Dec 2006
34027 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:31 pm to
It’s a huge mind shift with the coming generations.

Boomers inherited the few items of value/true heirlooms from their parents (and their grandparents had very few valued items due to growing up in frugal conditions)

But the younger generation has less space and less want for all this stuff…and so many boomers are basically hoarders at this point.

Take the one or two things that make you happy for the memory but you have to let go of things instead of them just being stuck in a box for years and years
This post was edited on 4/28/24 at 10:33 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142667 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:34 pm to
I think getting rid of everything is just as wrong as keeping everything exactly like it was a la Miss Havisham
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56141 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:34 pm to
I believe I am more sentimental than most. When a loved one passes, I seldom go for the valuable items like most people do. Instead, I go for items that bring back memories of my childhood associated with that person. For instance, no one understood why I wanted my grandmother’s pot the she cooked spaghetti in every Sunday for 50 or 60 years. It is just an old raggedy pot to most people, but it is priceless to me.
This post was edited on 4/29/24 at 10:46 pm
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63669 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:35 pm to
Fairly. I try to keep it to a small number of items though.
Posted by saintsfan1977
West Monroe, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
7812 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 10:41 pm to
I'm not. I literally don't give a shite about sentimental value. None of my family's items are worth anything to me. It doesn't bring them back and I still have their memories. Don't need crap to remind me of them.
Posted by WinnaSez
Jackson, MS
Member since Mar 2019
1022 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 11:16 pm to
Sometimes it’s the little things. I have my Dad’s 1950’s Rolex, but it’s a handwritten poem to my mother that I cherish the most.
Posted by Shiftyplus1
Regret nothing that made you smile
Member since Oct 2005
13384 posts
Posted on 4/28/24 at 11:25 pm to
When my last grandparent died, my mom and her siblings went through the house and reminisced about certain items, but in the end, each only took a couple things. Things that REALLY meant something to them, personally. You have to be pragmatic about stuff. I know I have way too much crap to just grab a truckload and add it to the pile.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76639 posts
Posted on 4/29/24 at 12:05 am to
I’m only sentimental about my kids, not much else
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Member since Feb 2006
11825 posts
Posted on 4/29/24 at 2:11 am to
Younger people might appreciate some things but they don’t collect things like antiques etc
Posted by Swamp Angel
Georgia
Member since Jul 2004
7319 posts
Posted on 4/29/24 at 6:52 am to
I'm probably overly sentimental. I have stuff from four generations in my home ranging from photos, recordings, firearms, parts off old paddle wheelers from the 1800s, LSU student tickets from the 1940s, Dad's toy train set from 1936 as well as his 1957 Thunderbird. Lots of stuff from the tobacco farm in West Virginia where my mother was raised as well. Not to mention a good portion of the furniture that my parents had in their home from the year they were married in 1964. Lots of true antique stuff too.

Also... I never really thought about what happened to all the teeth I lost that were taken away by the tooth fairy until I opened a box that my mother had stashed away for me to open after she passed away last August. Yup, every last one of 'em in envelopes. I have absolutely no idea what in the world to do with those.

I prolly need to see a psychiatrist about this.
This post was edited on 4/29/24 at 7:00 am
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