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In Vitro Fertilization with Unknown Sperm Donor

Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:15 am
Posted by CelebrationSaint
Member since Feb 2024
17 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:15 am
Long story short, my wife and I have both agreed we want to start a family. The only hesitation is on my end because of my genetics. I suffer from high blood pressure and severe allergies/asthma, both of which are strongly hereditary and run in my family. And while it hasn't impacted me yet, major vision problems also run in my family. Both my dad and my older sister are legally blind without glasses or contacts.

I want a child but I don't want to pass along my faulty genetics. We are seriously considering doing IVF with sperm from an unknown donor, not my own sperm. My wife's only concern is that I won't have the same level of connection with the child knowing genetically it's not my own. I personally don't have that concern.

Has anyone else here done this? What was your experience? Did it cause any impact with your relationship with the child (any thoughts of feeling like the child really isn't yours)? Any impacts down the road when the child was older?
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:17 am
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
4015 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:17 am to
Let your swimmers swim, baw
Posted by Aguga
Southeast
Member since Aug 2021
2030 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:17 am to
quote:

The only hesitation is on my end because of my genetics. I suffer from high blood pressure and severe allergies/asthma


No guarantees it will pass down, and even if it does it ain’t that bad.
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
37422 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:18 am to
Your heathen arse needs to be in church this morning instead of creating more alters for dumbass trolls.
Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
3943 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:20 am to
Everyone has some imperfection. None of yours are major or huge health risks from what you mentioned. Have your own kids.
Posted by jmh5724
Member since Jan 2012
2148 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:21 am to
You’re telling your wife that you have bad genetics and want another guy’s DNA inside her? Bold move
Posted by DeoreDX
Member since Oct 2010
4061 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:21 am to
Who's to say the donor doesn't have worse issues?
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
1751 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:21 am to
Over blood pressure and asthma?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59371 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:22 am to
Voluntarily cucking yourself. Interesting move.
Posted by Phideaux
Cades Cove
Member since May 2008
2512 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:26 am to
What is the vision issue? Inherited retinal disease that has been diagnosed?
Posted by Junkyard Hog
Arkansas
Member since Aug 2019
251 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:26 am to
Sounds like you don’t know the definition of legally blind
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:27 am
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19517 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:27 am to
PIIHB and you will have a brown baby, or she will.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:28 am
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18809 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:28 am to
I know it has its own issues but adopt. Tons of already needy kids that need a loving home
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
13415 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:29 am to
My ex wife used to have it done. You can basically pick a profile that matches you looks wise and what genetics you want. The better the candidate and sperm count, the more money.
Posted by Metariemobtiger
Mobile
Member since Aug 2019
421 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:31 am to
Pics of wife?
might let her take some sperm . Sounds like she needs it.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11295 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:32 am to
I honestly can’t imagine any man voluntarily choosing another man’s sperm unless he couldn’t produce any.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 10:59 am
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
5778 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:32 am to
I'm 6'2" and make good looking kids.

Pics of wife?
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
20648 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:33 am to
The opposite. donor eggs in Czech Republic (Zlin) for my wife.

It will not matter to you at all. The bond will be immediate and unbelievable between you and your son/daughter from birth.

Just do it and quit over-thinking it. Going to be awesome.

Posted by White Roach
Member since Apr 2009
9472 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:35 am to
You think IVF is cheap, easy, or a 100% guaranteed sucess?

How about this idea:
Take the money you would have spent on IVF and invest it. Have your potentially defective child. IF at some point in the future Junior has HBP, asthma, or bad vision; the money you invested should be able to pay for plenty of BP meds, inhalers, and/or glasses? Who knows what the future holds with an anonymous sperm donor.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:41 am
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
15978 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:36 am to
quote:

considering doing IVF with sperm from an unknown donor, not my own sperm

Beta cuck.

That won’t be your child bro
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