re: Married men of the OT, how many of you are single income HH?

My husband and I both work, both make six figures. Thankfully we did have grandparents to help when our daughters were younger, but they went to daycare as well. There are times when we’ve had to take turns being at school programs, sports, etc, but we’re both at 90% of things. I still “run the house.” Groceries, cook, laundry, clean, finances, errands. I love my job and the satisfaction I get from it. Both of my girls are smart, well-adjusted & very independent. I like to think I’m raising my girls to know you can have both. You can have a great career & be a good wife/mom. I don’t think the two have to be mutually exclusive.