re: Married men of the OT, how many of you are single income HH?

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just amazes me that men don't think their daughter should be completely able to take care of themselves financially if needed.

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You don’t do this under the backdrop of having a viable escape plan.

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Instead, it's all about being a partner and not a subordinate in your relationship

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Running the house, kids and finances is a partner, not a subordinate.

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The husband could die or be disabled

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This is what life insurance is for. I’m worth more dead than alive.

I get what you’re saying but my wife and I BOTH thought it would be better for the kids than having to shuffle around with daycare as we didn’t have any grandparents that could take the load. I had the most earning potential so there you go.

She got a lot of one on one time with the kids when they were young that I only saw in videos. It was a lot of work for both of us but we still made the right decision.