re: Married men of the OT, how many of you are single income HH?

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we got a kid in daycare. Seems alright. She is good around other kids.

not ideal I guess but I was raised with two white collar working parents. Never crossed my mind to have a stay at home wife

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Both of ours went to daycare until they were old enough to stay home a few hours by themselves. One of them graduated from UC Boulder and the other is a straight A student entering the 9th grade. We both had careers before we had a family and anytime one or both of us needed to take off to be with the kids for any reason we just did, if our employer at the time didn't like it they could go to hell. I don't know that the one could have turned out better and the other one is doing fantastic and shows all the signs of doing better than her brother. Either one of them can make friends with ease and never meets a stranger, both of them are kind and generous and caring. What more could one ask for?