re: A friend of mine is getting disowned by some family members for divorcing wife that

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Your friend is a terrible person and I hope she gets 100% of his stuff.

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I think y’all are being a little rough on the dude

If this dude is out there divorcing his kids’ mom because her tits ain’t as high as they used to be or she’s got the c-section scar, yea that’s fricked, but ONE HUNDRED POUNDS is an insane amount of weight

I’m imagining the truth is somewhere in the middle where she gained a bit of a weight and he was a bit of a dick, but I’d be surprised if any straight man was willing to stick with his wife if she gained 100 pounds. For an average thin person to gain 100 pounds, that takes her from 115-130 to 215-230. That’s a legit unit of a woman. That’s get out of breath walking up the stairs weight. And where do you draw the line? If she gains 200 is it ok? 300?

I imagine, like mentioned, their relationship was already messed up. Healthy, active, supportive people don’t gain 100 pounds, atleast not normally. He should’ve recognized she was unhappy and eating through it, worked on their relationship, and figured out active things they could have done together. At some point there is a breaking point though IMO