re: Has anyone made it work with a liberal partner?

I haven't read all 18 pages, but have you tried being honest with her? Tell her that you nor any other normal guy wants to be married to some Marxist idealogue.

One major problem leftists have is they are oblivious to how annoying they all are to the rest of us.

Me & my best friend hardly ever see each other except for him throwing a party on July 4th & Christmas Eve every year & every year his wife tries to ruin it by inserting her politics into every conversation. I finally told her to stfu no one wants to talk about "white privilege" & "patriarchy" at a Christmas party. Apparently, this came as shocking news to her, but she has certainly toned it down ever since.