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re: Has anyone made it work with a liberal partner?

Posted on 10/15/23 at 7:53 pm to
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
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Posted on 10/15/23 at 7:53 pm to
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The only caveat I'd toss in is you should probably have a serious talk if you're uber-religious and she's not (or has lost her religion).




If he is uber-religious then SHE should cut bait.. that uber-religious shite is crazy .
Posted by sofar
Member since Mar 2021
31 posts
Posted on 10/15/23 at 8:15 pm to
we're both catholic, but don't go to mass often. both went to Catholic schools exclusively growing up.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19917 posts
Posted on 10/15/23 at 8:26 pm to
RUN
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
32735 posts
Posted on 10/15/23 at 9:06 pm to
frick. That.

Imagine having to fend off your wife from cutting your 8 year olds dick off if he likes the little mermaid that week
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38917 posts
Posted on 10/15/23 at 10:28 pm to
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Even when faced with hard evidence of the failures of marxism and collectivism


But but it just hasn't been done right
Posted by pelicanpride
Houston
Member since Oct 2007
1314 posts
Posted on 10/15/23 at 10:56 pm to
If she is from more conservative roots and you are planning to stay in a more moderate area, she should be fine. I went to graduate school at a fancy far left university, and I’m further to the right now than I was when I graduated LSU with my undergrad. The real question is if you two are able to hold respectful conversations about your differences in opinions. If you respect her enough to marry her, I hope you value her judgment and intelligence. The only red flag is an inability to hear ideas that differ from her own. That’s a sign of poor critical thinking skills, and that will absolutely spill over into other areas of your marriage. That counts for you, too. Are you able to respectfully discuss your views with her?
Posted by AlterDWI
Durango, Colorado
Member since Nov 2012
2229 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 4:41 am to
Trust me, you want your future wife to have exactly ZERO political opinions. Whether they agree or disagree, political conversations w women are always painful. All you want out of her is to stay barefoot & pregnant & just go along with whatever you say.
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
43123 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 5:34 am to
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Party for Socialism and Liberation

That’s more than just liberal or slightly socialist. That organization is legitimately communist.
Posted by TrueTiger
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Member since Sep 2004
68831 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 6:02 am to
She's infected with the woke mind virus.

I'm sorry for your loss.
Posted by CitizenK
BR
Member since Aug 2019
9842 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 6:36 am to
I've only fricked a lot of them. My ex wife went far left after our divorce, and after she moved to Austin.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4522 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 8:33 am to
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Wouldn’t even try to make it with a liberal partner.


Better man than me. I dont even want my kids associating with kids of liberal parents.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4522 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 8:35 am to
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Trust me, you want your future wife to have exactly ZERO political opinions. Whether they agree or disagree, political conversations w women are always painful. All you want out of her is to stay barefoot & pregnant & just go along with whatever you say.


Carefully agree
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2319 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 8:56 am to
Initially, the sex was fantastic but when things calmed down I found them to be unbearable and I was out of there.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:09 am to
There will be a time in your life when you will really, really, really regret not taking the advice of the people on this thread who said "run".

There are billions of people on this planet, there are tons of women who you are more compatible with.

She will not become less Liberal.

The more her looks fade and her narcissism needs to be fed, she will seek to feed her ego and sense of worth by adopting more and more extreme Leftist positions.

Cut the cord NOW.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
7457 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:15 am to
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et my GF while students at UF (yes, I know. My father went to LSU though he's from Ruston). Anyways, that was 8 years ago we are both 27.

Originally thinking about proposing soon, but now I'm at a crossroads.

She was originally completely apolitical, she knew I liked Trump and never seemed to care at all. I don't wear a MAGA hat and shirt around but she knew I voted for him. She's in grad school in Boston and I'm in Florida, she's moving back after May. She told me that she had been going to some pro-choice rally I dismissed it at first as trendy, I mean she's a woman in her 20s, and it's sort of expected. Now I see she's starting to attend Boston "Party for Socialism and Liberation" events and "Boston Socialist Alternative". She's been regurgitating typical left-wing talking points. Her father is an extremely conservative man.

I can go on but don't want to turn this into an essay that nobody will read. I don't know too many older conservative men, so I turn to the OT. Has anyone made it work? Should I end this relationship now before it's too even harder, it'll already be pretty damn tough. Thanks.



SOunds like she, like most people who leave the area they were born and raised in, is growing, while you, like most people who do not expand their life experiences, are not. That is unlikely to change. She will probably end it pretty quickly herself...because she has already moved on. She may not realize it yet but as soon as y'all are back together more and more she will realize that she has grown and you have not. Most women do this, by the way, as they mature they change, most men simply get more entrenched. It is a major reason why marriage is difficult...if a couple remains stagnant it can work, if they grow simultaneoulsy it can work, neither happens often and people find themselves in miserable situations.


If you are considering ending it it is unlikely that she is not ahead of you....both of you are better off acting like adults and just ending it. Life is too short to be miserable and thats where yall are headed.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263157 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:17 am to
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SOunds like she, like most people who leave the area they were born and raised in, is growing, while you, like most people who do not expand their life experiences, are not.


Socialism is security based, for children who want rewards without putting in work. Its a regression of individuality.

Thats not how men work.
This post was edited on 10/16/23 at 9:18 am
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
7457 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:19 am to
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Pro-choice is a death cult. Marry a woman and have children when you find one who celebrates life. Pro-choice is also an idelogy that no man can tell me what to do about anything. That will make it's way into every decision in your marriage until you aren't even allowed an opinion because of equality.



It will if you are a pussy. If you are not you will know that a woman is grown assed adult as are you and you may or may not agree on everything and if that is not OK she can hit the fricking road. Who would allow anyone to allow them to have an opinion? That is some sho nuff cuck thinking right there....
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263157 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:19 am to
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and if that is not OK she can hit the fricking road.


Best option. Lifes too short to spend years with someone who doesn't recognize reality.
This post was edited on 10/16/23 at 9:22 am
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4522 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:21 am to
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Socialism is security based, for children who want rewards without putting in work. Its a regression of individuality.



Hit it right on the head.

Men (for the most part) want to earn their security.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4522 posts
Posted on 10/16/23 at 9:22 am to
It will if you are a pussy. If you are not you will know that a woman is grown assed adult as are you and you may or may not agree on everything and if that is not OK she can hit the fricking road. Who would allow anyone to allow them to have an opinion? That is some sho nuff cuck thinking right there....


I've seen 4 couples at various dinners now that have the mommy head of household approach where daddy is chasing the kiddos and doesn't talk much.

its sad
This post was edited on 10/16/23 at 9:23 am
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