re: OT help: mid life crises

You have arrived at your midlife destination.It is normal that when you arrive at your destination, there is a letdown. So here is what I suggest; focus on nurturing all your relationships. Focus on anything that brings your life depth and meaning. And for the love of God, if you are a successful man who has sacrificed and achieved in the service of others, and want to do something for yourself, don’t call it a “ crisis”. That’s a feminist construct that it’s a crisis if a man chooses to divert his resources to himself now and again. Don’t buy in to that crap. You earned it and there is no crisis if you decide you want something you’ve spent a lifetime denying yourself.