re: What's your relationship with your dad?

#2 moving to #3 in my college years. Then my mother was killed in an accident when he was driving drunk (his fault).

Relationship stalled. Both of us went into major depression.

When my children came along, he was a good "papa" to the grand kids.

Then he died of cancer at 67.

I could not move beyond my mom's death.

So it was left at a 2 but could have been a 3.