re: Marriage counseling

It doesn’t work.
I know of a friend who uprooted his whole life and supported his wife when she wanted to go to med school. Long story short. They were married for 12 years and he worked two jobs and helped raise their kid in the process. Unbelievable father. They started going to counseling and it tanked the whole thing. Unfortunately, women don’t like to be held accountable. They will tank relationships on purpose and then play victim. Once you shine the light on their flaws, they can’t handle it.