re: Divorce Experience

Collaborative Law. Work everything out yourselves and get the lawyers to put it to paper. Do as much of your communicating as possible in writing (email, text) and record verbal conversations. Also, if there's any anger there, stow it. This is a business transaction now with no room for emotions. I walked away from a 17 year marriage with 3 kids with 50/50 custody and no child support. It cost me some money on the front end, but I saved my pension too.