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Posted on 1/14/23 at 6:39 am to
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1453 posts
Posted on 1/14/23 at 6:39 am to
Make sure you have a good lawyer. It's an investment. I paid for a good lawyer and have saved a lot of money in the long run.

Be there for the kids and go to their event. They need to know you care about them.

Do not bad mouth their mother. When they get older, they will respect you for that.
Posted by DerkaDerka
Member since Jul 2016
1079 posts
Posted on 1/14/23 at 6:01 pm to
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Do not bad mouth their mother. When they get older, they will respect you for that


Yup. Also, your kid's identity is 50% of the mom. Badmouth mom and they internalize it as badmouthing them.
Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 1:00 pm to
quote:

Make sure you have a good lawyer. It's an investment. I paid for a good lawyer and have saved a lot of money in the long run.

Be there for the kids and go to their event. They need to know you care about them.

Do not bad mouth their mother. When they get older, they will respect you for that.


This is perhaps the best advice. Especially the first point. Don't just hire any attorney, find a good one and do some research.

Also, go to therapy. You will need to be prepared mentally for something that will frustrate you for the next few years or so. That plus concentrating on your kids will help with the third point.
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