Why do men still get conned into marriage when there are no benefits for men to marry?

I just see no upside to marriage for men.

Let me see, I can either..

(a) get married, only be allowed to be with this one woman, and if we break up she gets half of my assets.

(b) see all of the women I want, and if I want her out of my life it only takes a phone call. And I get to keep my money.

Of course women want marriage because 99 percent of the time they marry up financially.
Thanks to no fault divorce they even get your money if you divorce them for infidelity.
It's a no lose for women, either they have a meal ticket for life or they get cash and prizes through divorce.

Why can't you just be in a monogamous life long relationship without bringing a government into it?

You can even have a wedding ceremony and take vows if you want, and keep the government out of your life.


EDIT: Does marriage today even resemble marriage in Biblical times?

Doesn't the Bible say that you can divorce for infidelity?

"Marriage" today in USA says that if you divorce your wife for infidelity that she still gets half of your money.

Does the Bible say that if you divorce your wife for infidelity that she gets your house, half of your gold/silver, and 10 loaves of bread for life?