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Opinion: My married longtime ex is texting me A LOT

Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:51 pm
Posted by LSUJD_04
Member since Feb 2021
1513 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:51 pm
We dated for 9 years and even got engaged but we were dumb kids back then and had a huge fight that ended it all and we never talked for a couple years. She met and married a guy in about 15 months time which was fine with me. Now however she’s blowing me up asking those awkward questions like why didn’t we stay together like everyone thought we would and do I think it would work now, etc. I’m with a great girl who I love but at the same time this other girl is the standard by which I’ve always compared other girls. Even though she’s married and I never texted or spoke to her once I would still take a bullet for this girl without even a thought so I’m extremely conflicted. I respect the sanctity of marriage even though I don’t know this guy and I live 1000 miles away but this is that one girl that every guy has that changes everything.
Posted by T_don
Abbeville
Member since Dec 2019
334 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:52 pm to
Pics?
Posted by tigahfan747
New Orleans
Member since Oct 2017
1695 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:52 pm to
She drunk.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
19346 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
1. Tell her to send nudes
2. Post said nudes here
3. ???
4. Profit
Posted by NorceauxTigerFan
Member since Nov 2016
614 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
PIIHB
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
In
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
57284 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
Just be text vent friends.

Bitches like that.

ETA: Occasionally, y’all can snuggle and enjoy a day or two.
This post was edited on 12/25/21 at 9:55 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
146533 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
quote:

I’m with a great girl who I love but at the same time this other girl is the standard by which I’ve always compared other girls
only one solution:

MFF
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
56661 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:53 pm to
I feel like most guys have a version of this girl in their lives where it didn't work out for whatever reason.

They'll be having you ready to risk it all
Posted by Delta9
Member since Jun 2021
866 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:54 pm to
You know the rules
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
47315 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:54 pm to
quote:

I respect the sanctity of marriage


quote:

but this is that one girl that every guy has that changes everything.


If y’all couldn’t make it work after 9 years it ain’t gonna happen

If you really respect the sanctity of marriage you would block her #
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7533 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:54 pm to
You sound like you’re in middle school.
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
95606 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:55 pm to
None of this happened nub
Posted by kaleidoscoping
Member since Feb 2021
339 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:55 pm to
What's your wife think about it?
Posted by Hennigan
Member since Jan 2020
1117 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:55 pm to
She's thinking of divorce or really pissed at her husband or whatever and looking to monkey branch or fantasizing about it.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
31150 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:55 pm to
How long have they been married for?
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
73200 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:56 pm to
Block the number and move on with your life, assuming no kids.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:56 pm to
In.
Posted by IMJ127
Death Valley
Member since Jul 2011
3380 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:56 pm to
She's just trying to see if she can get a rouse out of you. Women hate to be forgotten and ignored. She wants to know if she has you whipped and as soon as she realizes she does, she'll ghost you and continue with her life.
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3977 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 9:57 pm to
Tell her you got a hotel room midway between y’all and see if she’ll meet you there. If not, maybe she’ll stop texting.
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