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re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?

Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:46 am to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42668 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:46 am to
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It makes a difference if the Vet did this humanely to help end the suffering of a 15 yo cat. That’s what really happened, isn’t it?
or he ran over his wife’s cat and is trying to blame it on the evil sisters in law
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
1195 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:48 am to
He needs to get Kiran Chawla involved. Air all of his SILs’ dirty laundry out on social media and TV.
Posted by Saintsisit
Member since Jan 2013
3979 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:48 am to
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Firstly, wouldn't her sister in laws be your sisters?



How do you get to be old enough to post on TD and not know there is another scenario it could be?
Posted by jrodLSUke
Premium
Member since Jan 2011
22287 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:50 am to
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or he ran over his wife’s cat and is trying to blame it on the evil sisters in law

Now that you mention it, throwing the cat out the car at 60 mph is oddly specific. Like maybe he was there when it happened?
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42668 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:51 am to
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Like maybe he was there when it happened?
why was he with TWO sisters in law??

Threesome and the cat got squished
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166706 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 12:01 pm to
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"I believe all of you can kiss my whole a-hole. Don't call me or my wife again. The relationship with you is optional, and we are opting out."


*respect my decision
Posted by Grievous Angel
Tuscaloosa, AL
Member since Dec 2008
9712 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 12:13 pm to
I can smell this post.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36669 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 12:14 pm to
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One of the SILs admitted what she did and ratted out the other one. The one who married my wife’s twin brother is admitting that she was in the car but denying that she was a part of this. She says she didn’t know the cat was in the car and that it was all the other SIL’s doing, which is a bullshite lie because that cat meowed loudly constantly anytime she was in a car.


First of all, call the police and see where that goes.

Secondly, I think you're not considering a potential option: you could continue to go to your wife's family functions and use those as an opportunity to be an absolute count to her family. Every single frustration you have, let it out on them.
Posted by ZULU
Member since Sep 2009
1011 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 12:17 pm to
If anyone killed any of my pets I would unleash all hell upon them. Pets are innocent and they are family to me. Do not go near those evil people.
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4282 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 12:36 pm to
All the billboard lawyers always represent ‘victims.’

The people of Louisiana are really the ‘victims’ of all their foolishness.

Who is blaming who here?
Posted by Tim Gambill
Member since Nov 2023
673 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 1:00 pm to
It's our demoncrapic society. Blame the cops for a police chase accident instead of the criminal.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38857 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 1:02 pm to
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basically gaslighting my wife


Lost me here

Just tell the creepy pet murderers and apologist to eat a dick. Then let Facebook know

Very easy
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5545 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 2:15 pm to
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you equated killing a cat to killing grandma and that’s not true - I said it was terrible and you should distance yourself


No, I didn’t.

I used that to make a comparison and pointed out the hypocrisy of treating the same behavior differently. Obviously killing a human is worse than killing a cat. I’m not equating the two. People always seem to get emotional and get everything confused and miss the point when someone makes a comparison.

However, you can’t say that one of them is ethical and one is not. They are both evil but to different levels.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42668 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 2:19 pm to
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I used that to make a comparison a
your comparison was shitty

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miss the point when someone makes a comparison.
I didn’t miss the point - I get you’d rather have your cat than grandma, but did the cat cook well?

quote:

you can’t say that one of them is ethical and one is not.
I didn’t say that - did you even read what I posted?

quote:

They are both evil but to different levels.
evil is evil no matter how you throw the dice


You need to stop being so emotional.
Posted by Captain Rumbeard
Member since Jan 2014
4223 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 2:38 pm to
There's more to this story and you know it and don't want to bring it up.

If it went down exactly like you said and they did it to be evil, then why bother asking us? I'd never see them again for fear I'd put THEM down. But the odds of this story being exactly like you are relaying it is slim.

Sorry man. I'm just not buying it.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
15940 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 3:01 pm to
You are definitely right to keep the sisters in law away from any future kids.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29716 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 3:10 pm to
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Writing off shitty family members, if someone can do it, can be a useful tool.
Yep, I’ve got a twat woke nephew who thinks our family is a bunch of racist, transphobic, white supremacists that I’ve written off and haven’t spoken to in like 7 years.

Of course he’s dating a chic that pretends to be a male and he calls her his boyfriend. frick him. He’s got a lot of apologizing to do before I’ll have anything to do with him.
Posted by South Shore Cyclist
Member since Jul 2023
169 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 3:26 pm to
Your wife needs to report these two sociopaths to the authorities for animal abuse.

You need to keep her away from her family. Dysfunctional doesn’t begin to describe it. As she begins to experience healthy family dynamics, she will be able to see more clearly who’s at fault here. Therapy will help.

The BIL needs to divorce the cat-killing woman before they have children, otherwise he can expect a Kristi Noem episode waiting for him down the line.
Posted by PhifeDogg
Stankonia
Member since Mar 2006
6049 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 5:06 pm to
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There's more to this story and you know it and don't want to bring it up.

That's what I'm thinking.. OP keeps mentioning how SILs say they got rid of the cat, but what else did they say? What's their side of the story?

I'm not saying she deserved it, but there's got to be more to it than 'this entire side of the family conspired to kidnap and kill my wife's cat because she said something mean once.'

Dindu vibes in this story..
Posted by DarlingClementine
Way west
Member since Sep 2023
108 posts
Posted on 5/17/24 at 5:07 pm to
I would go scorched earth with those 2 beeches until the end of time. They could apologize a million times, and I would neither accept it, nor be at an event with them present EVER.

If the story is true, there is no excuse. That was a LIVING creature, not someone’s iPhone, or EarPods, or some other useless junk.

Oh, yeah, faaaaamillllllly who supports the perps would be dead to me as well.
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