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re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:17 am to lsu777
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:17 am to lsu777
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1) tell the SILs that they are both psychopathic bitches and turn to the husbands and tell them they are cuck little bitches for thinking its ok and then tell the father he is a pussy for allowing someone to harm his daughter and not sticking up for her
2) if BIL says shite, slap the ever living frick out of him. dare her father to say somethign
3) tell her mom, she is a terrible mother for not sticking up for her only daughter
Do all of this and make sure someone is videoing it so we can watch it on Worldstar
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Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:17 am to cbree88
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She's a grown up.
And?
Her family should have no pull on her. She's an adult.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:18 am to jrodLSUke
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It was a 15 year old cat. I’m guessing it was time and SIL did this to help out the mom.
How old the cat was does not make a difference in the crime; and no the mom was not involved.
There’s a difference between killing grandma or letting her die peacefully from natural causes.
Will you be ok with your grandkids taking you in the back and killing you once you turn 80 years old? You’ll probably die soon anyway, right?
This post was edited on 5/17/24 at 11:20 am
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:20 am to cbree88
quote:this is not the same as killing a cat
There’s a difference between killing grandma or letting her die peacefully from natural causes.
Your wife’s SILs sound insane - I’d stay away
Killing a cat is evil and terrible, and it’s probably just best to distance yourself, but it’s not the same as killing a human
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:23 am to lsu777
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sorry but you need to brush up on your fighting skills because you need to confront all of them in front of the whole family
the fighting serves no purpose - most of the time that is trailer park and ghetto style. No one needs to "catch hands." You didn't get any peace from that, just drama.
Act as if they have dropped off the face of the earth. No drama, just peace and move on. It works.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:27 am to cbree88
It sounds like your wife needs to put boundaries and walls up, ASAP. Buckle in for a lifetime of this struggle, as her family sounds fairly toxic.
I hope you can both be on the same page here but now that you are growing your own family, you will have to put your mental health and safety above all else. You CAN cut out toxic people in your life, and in fact you should when it becomes necessary.
If your wife's brothers and parents are pushing her to "get over it" and still come to family functions, they are the problem. And will always be the problem. Good luck with this, it will always be sticky for you until you make the hard decisions you need to.
I hope you can both be on the same page here but now that you are growing your own family, you will have to put your mental health and safety above all else. You CAN cut out toxic people in your life, and in fact you should when it becomes necessary.
If your wife's brothers and parents are pushing her to "get over it" and still come to family functions, they are the problem. And will always be the problem. Good luck with this, it will always be sticky for you until you make the hard decisions you need to.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:27 am to cbree88
Frick 'em. You don't need these people in your and your wife's lives. Cut them out and cut them off. You owe nothing to family when they act like this, and, perhaps I'm out of line, but the rest of the family should be calling out their heinous act but aren't, so you don't need them either.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:29 am to lsu777
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and i would never under any circumstances allow my kids to be around people that think this kind of behavior is ok.
hmm yet....
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someone needs to catch hands, might be you that takes the arse whooping, but who cares
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ike it is baffling to me you have not beat the frick out of the brothers yet
so you teach your kids this behavior is perfectly fine? Physical assault (as adults) is the answer when you feel you have been wronged?
lol do you
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:30 am to DakIsNoLB
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Frick 'em. You don't need these people in your and your wife's lives. Cut them out and cut them off. You owe nothing to family when they act like this, and, perhaps I'm out of line, but the rest of the family should be calling out their heinous act but aren't, so you don't need them either.
Well said. I hate when people say "but they are your family." The response is "yes, I'm sorry that my family is like that" and not "you're right, I'll just have to live with it."
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:30 am to PrettyBird
can we at least get some pictures of these broads so we can know which side we need to agree with?
jeez, i thought we had rules around here.
jeez, i thought we had rules around here.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:32 am to PrettyBird
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so you teach your kids this behavior is perfectly fine? Physical assault (as adults) is the answer when you feel you have been wronged?
my feelings are...by taking the cat, they essentially physically harmed my family...in that case, violence is the answer. i teach my kids to stand up for themselves and when bullied, punch the bully in the face. and make no mistake about it, the SILs are bullies.
but i also understand his point as a father, he has a job to keep to provide for the family and fighting is something that could cost him that
if that is the case, im telling them how i feel and family is cutting off all contact
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:33 am to cbree88
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One SIL says they let her go in a field. She’s was 15 years old with arthritis.
The other says the other one threw her out of a window going 60 miles per hour.
well how about you file a report and quit fricking around with them.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:36 am to cbree88
Have you communicated with the family at all about this? I think you should consider doing that and letting them know they are all blocked and gone due to this activity and their support of two sick women.
You and your wife should block them from all communications thereafter and see what happens.
You and your wife should block them from all communications thereafter and see what happens.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:37 am to Sam Quint
Yes, frick you from all animal lovers. Fricking serial killer.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:38 am to GreenRockTiger
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this is not the same as killing a cat Your wife’s SILs sound insane - I’d stay away Killing a cat is evil and terrible, and it’s probably just best to distance yourself, but it’s not the same as killing a human
I agree that killing a human is worse than killing a cat, but my point still stands true. The age of the cat makes no difference in the crime committed. She could be a kitten or 15 years old. It was a hateful, spiteful act intended to inflict as much pain and suffering on wife as possible because everyone knows she’s an animal lover.
The human vs cat thing is just an attempt to deflect and distract people to something else other than the matter at hand. I could see the SILs saying something like that as an excuse and a defense.
This post was edited on 5/17/24 at 11:39 am
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:39 am to cbree88
Those SILs would be dead me, and any function that they attended. The fact the family hasn’t disowned them shows they are all shite.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:41 am to cbree88
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How old the cat was does not make a difference in the crime; and no the mom was not involved.
It makes a difference if the Vet did this humanely to help end the suffering of a 15 yo cat. That’s what really happened, isn’t it?
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:43 am to cbree88
quote:I didn’t mention anything about the age of the cat
The age of the cat makes no difference in the crime committed.
quote:you equated killing a cat to killing grandma and that’s not true - I said it was terrible and you should distance yourself
The human vs cat thing is just an attempt to deflect and distract people to something else other than the matter at hand. I could see the SILs saying something like that as an excuse and a defense.
Quit being emotional and go do something about this.
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:44 am to cbree88
Here is the best response:
"I believe all of you can kiss my whole a-hole. Don't call me or my wife again. The relationship with you is optional, and we are opting out."
"I believe all of you can kiss my whole a-hole. Don't call me or my wife again. The relationship with you is optional, and we are opting out."
Posted on 5/17/24 at 11:44 am to cbree88
Tell her to say the following:
"I say this with nothing but love in my heart, but frick all the way off"
"I say this with nothing but love in my heart, but frick all the way off"
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