re: How hard is the jump from one child to two?

I found the jump from one to two kids to be huge. I did my part with the first, but my wife was the primary caregiver and I had plenty of "me" time. That went away with the second kid. The remark about switching from man defense to zone is true, but also Dad has to play the whole game now instead of subbing in. By three, you were a seasoned vet so no big deal.