re: Unwanted Sexual Advance - Please Define and/or Explain

Fortunately, a training film has been provided by our friends at NBC to cover all of this.

"Be Handsome
Be Attractive
Don't be unattractive"

"Sexual Harrassment and You" SNL

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I think almost everyone can agree this thing has gotten way out of hand. But as someone who's had to live in a relatively more restrictive work environment--start with the fact that it's about 80-95% male and there isn't going to be an abundance of attractive, available, sane women most anywhere you're assigned in DoD, and add to that the fact that there are a bunch of rules to navigate about who can date whom according to rank, position, type of command relationship etc--and you come up with one simple solution:

Don't screw around in the workplace.

Even when it's 100% legal, consensual, and accepted by your office and colleagues, there's still a good chance that mixing your work life and your romantic life is eventually going to hit some snags. Of course men and women tend to glom to people with similar backgrounds, interests, and careers, which makes the office an ideal place to meet a mate on your level. But the risks involved aren't worth it. I've seen it go bad more than the other way around. And that makes sense when you consider the fact that the overwhelming majority of relationships don't end in marriage unto death. So at some point, odds are your workplace relationship is going to break down, and when it does it can go nuclear (at home and at work) in pretty short order.

So if you're looking for somewhere to plant your wang, just don't do it at the place you clock in. Even then, if you must, don't do it with a subordinate or anyone you're in a position to help or hurt.

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^ otherwise known as don't shite where you eat.

"Hey babe.........wanna see my dick"?

"Yes, why yes I do...frick me now"

Not harassment.

"Hey babe............wanna see my dick"?

"Ewwww"

Harassment.

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What about "You look GOOOOOOODDDDDDD". That would be ok, right?

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Absolutely.

And in reply to HempHead, it shouldn't be a big deal to tell a woman she looks good/pretty or similar. 99% of the time, it's fine. I'm just saying-- imho, which may be wrong-- that this is close to where the imaginary fine line of where things "can" be interpreted wrong lays. Most women will be happy to hear this (again, as long as it doesn't come off lechy). But, for instance, if you say this to a more tightly wound / militant woman, you might be innocently saying, "You look good", and she might be hearing: "You look GOOOOOOODDDDDDD"... I'm sure this has happened and some woman has raced off to HR resulting in some poor dude having to defend himself.

That's why I said you need to know your audience. It depends on:
1) you and your delivery (kind of like two guys can tell the same joke and one gets laughs and the other doesn't). If you're charming, you can almost always say this without issue. If you're awkward or lechy, you're more likely to be misinterpreted.
2) the woman you compliment (is she gracious or uptight).

this reminds me of a lame arse low budget terrible movie called "cherry 2000" with melanie griffin

the guy has a robot sex slave who breaks down and he wants a new one so they go on a trek to find the same exact model out in the desert somewhere.

anyway, in the movie, before he decides to go find another robot girl, he goes to a bar to find a real woman for sex and finds rows of lawyers there he must negotiate with ahead of time to form a legally binding contract of what he can and cant talk about and touch.

basically he agrees to be a sex tool for the women and if they arent satisfied he pays a financial penalty and gets branded as a non performer on his "state ID" or something but the jist of it is, he isnt allowed to talk to a woman without a signed contract she agrees to ahead of time or he gets arrested for a sex crime. she will get his full sex history and rating as well as a financial report on him and list of who he had sex with and if they were satisfied, but he gets no info at all on the girl. he says screw it, he rather have the fake robot lol.

this was a stupid movie, but damn if it doesnt sound like exactly where we are heading

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OK, so, what is an unwanted sexual advance?

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It can only be judged from the perspective of 40 years of reflection and an keen analysis of how in can influence an upcoming election.

Until the iron gets hot enough there is no reason to strike it.

Just another arrow in the quiver of smear tactics employed by the prog/DEM/MSM cabal.

Best I can tell, the new rule is that if you have an impact on a woman’s paycheck, you shouldn’t approach her sexually.