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My wife of 45 years just blew my mind tonight....

Posted on 4/8/20 at 11:56 pm
Posted by TigerMikeAtl
Atlanta, GA
Member since Feb 2011
1974 posts
Posted on 4/8/20 at 11:56 pm
...first of all You do not want picsso don't ask.
Let me preface this by saying she's married to a former Marine. I don't really give a f##k about about sob stories from people who have made poor decisions in their life and can't accept the concept of personal responsibility. That being said...my bride is usually of same thought...until tonight.

She informed me that if she found herself infected by Covid-19, and she had to be put on a ventilater, she would refuse. Why this? She said she was 68 with COPD,and she would feel guilty if she were on ventilation when someone much younger needed it to save their life went without, she would feel guilt the rest of her life. She said she had lived a great life with a great guy and that she could never envision a life of without me! Basically she said she would want to die first rather than be left alone if I were to pass first.

This is the strongest statement of love to me, and others I have ever heard pass from this woman's lips since I had the fortune to marry this great lady! She is willing, like myself, to make the "ultimate sacrifice" . I never thought I could love her more!
Posted by Buttoncollector
S'boro
Member since Jun 2011
576 posts
Posted on 4/8/20 at 11:58 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/3/22 at 8:36 am
Posted by uscpuke
Member since Jan 2004
4996 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:00 am to
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Basically she said she would want to die first rather than be left alone if I were to pass first.

You sure that’s what she said? Seems like she only said no vent cause she wanted a younger person to have it.
Posted by Malik Agar
Member since Nov 2012
12076 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:01 am to
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You do not want picsso don't ask

We might not want them, but rules are rules bro.
Posted by Bourre
Da Parish
Member since Nov 2012
20182 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:01 am to
It’s probably been 45 years since she blew the other head, amirite
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28499 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:02 am to
That's honestly pretty awesome.

My wife asks about my life insurance policy monthly.
Posted by essesee
Baton rouge
Member since Sep 2013
1105 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:16 am to
Vents are not the answer. This is a gross mismanagement. I work in healthcare I wouldn’t want a vent either. This isn’t a respiratory virus like It’s being touted. It’s more like a blood disorder. Intubation/vents are killing more people than they are helping.

Vents are last ditch effort 90% never recover.
This post was edited on 4/9/20 at 12:20 am
Posted by RobbBobb
Matt Flynn, BCS MVP
Member since Feb 2007
27868 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:17 am to
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if she were on ventilation when someone much younger needed it to save their life went without

Assure her that putting someone on a vent with COVID isn't going to save their lives. Shes right about not wanting one, but not in order to keep someone else alive. 90% of the time, they die anyway. And if they miraculously survive on a vent, the vent could significantly damage their lungs.
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A paper from China involved Covid-19 patients who were admitted to an ICU. Of the those who eventually required mechanical ventilation, 86% died. Another early study reported 97% mechanically ventilated patients died.

Intensive Care National Audit and Research Center (ICNARC) in the UK, of patients admitted to ICUs and received advanced respiratory support—defined as invasive ventilation, BPAP or CPAP via endotracheal tube, or tracheostomy, or extracorporeal respiratory support — 66% died.

quote:

If the force or amount of air is too much, or if your lungs are too weak, it can damage your lung tissue. Your doctor calls this ventilator-associated lung injury (VALI).
Posted by wmr
North of Dickson, South of Herman's
Member since Mar 2009
32518 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:28 am to
They don't make women like that anymore.

Posted by Bulldogblitz
In my house
Member since Dec 2018
26774 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 12:38 am to
quote:

My wife asks about my life insurance policy monthly.


My wife knows all of them for me. I should get her info just to be sure.
Posted by indianswim
Plano, TX
Member since Jan 2010
18706 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 1:52 am to
A blown mind is a happy mind.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16063 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 2:43 am to
correction: there is no such thing as a “former” Marine...
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
20338 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 5:23 am to
They don’t make many like that anymore. Simply awesome.
Posted by Tiger on the Rag
Cattle Gap Egypt
Member since Jan 2018
6819 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 5:26 am to
I was on an intibation vent for 11 hrs. When i was conscious it was the worst feeling and i would want to be unconscious if ihad to be on it again
Posted by tilco
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Nov 2013
13470 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 5:40 am to
I thought we had plenty vents tho
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67482 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 6:03 am to
quote:

she would feel guilty if she were on ventilation when someone much younger needed it to save their life went without,

How would she know this happened? I don't think she would
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161244 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 6:04 am to
Congrats on the sex
Posted by AthensTiger
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2008
2977 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 6:15 am to
quote:

she's married to a former Marine.

No. She's married to a Marine, in a different phase of his life. Commandant Amos set that policy in 2011.
You have a great wife.
Posted by Wednesday
Member since Aug 2017
15395 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 6:30 am to
I don’t even know your wife, but I love her too.

She can definitely hang out in the she shed.

That’s the holy grail of marriage right there. Y’all are both lucky, and justifiably proud of building a great life together.
Posted by Little Trump
Florida
Member since Nov 2017
5817 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 6:36 am to
God bless your 45 year marriage but I’d take Hydroxychloroquine over ventilator as I’m hearing ventilator is last step before death

Give me Hydroxychloroquine
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