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All about my "white privilege"

Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:40 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:40 pm
Earlier this year, I was asked to apply for an appointed position to a non-profit board that oversees a group that I volunteer with. I found out recently that "other well-qualified candidates were chosen".

This was the third consecutive year in which I was asked to apply, I did apply, and I was not selected.

All three times, I have been told, off the record by people involved in the nomination process, that the organization was looking to "improve the diversity of our board". All three years, multiple slots were available, and each time, all but one slot was a re-appointment of a current board member. So, there was one "open" slot each year (due to someone not re-committing).

For these three years, the person appointed is:

A white female
A black male
A black female

Approx 70% of the board is white males. Many of these have been on the board for a long time.

All three of these individuals have less experience than I do, when it comes to volunteering, less education, etc.

White men in their mid 30s to mid 40s are completely screwed. We are paying for the sins of our forefathers, as the pendulum has swung the opposite way. Instead on ONLY appointing white men to positions like this, groups want to appoint EVERYONE BUT white men.

I'm all for diversity. That means, no one should get excluded based on their gender or race. That includes white men.

This may seem like I'm whining, and I probably am =) But it's frustrating to sit here and get attacked, constantly, on my "white privilege" when it sure starting to seem like not only is it not a privilege, but it's actually a handicap.

I feel like as a society, substituting one type of discrimination for another isn't going to end well.

Anyone else have any experience being passed over because of being a white guy?
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71108 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:42 pm to
It's one thing that minorities and women don't understand. They still love to point the finger at white men though.

EO is ignorant and it should be the best man or woman for the position.
Posted by theOG
Member since Feb 2010
10501 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:42 pm to
Toughen up, big guy.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134839 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:43 pm to
Tell them you're a black handicapped transgender woman


Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22662 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:43 pm to
I hear ya bruh but

quote:

Approx 70% of the board is white males.


doesn't sound like

quote:

White men in their mid 30s to mid 40s are completely screwed.
Posted by jnethe1
Pearland
Member since Dec 2012
16143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:44 pm to
Yep, that’s why I decided to start my own company.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71108 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:45 pm to
Hire me baw
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
36994 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:46 pm to
quote:

doesn't sound like

quote:
White men in their mid 30s to mid 40s are completely screwed.


The 70% on the board who are white men, are all in the 50s or older with 10 or more years of experience.

Your typical "boomers won't retire" situation.

It's these same boomers calling the shots now, I guess because they feel bad or something.
Posted by jnethe1
Pearland
Member since Dec 2012
16143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:49 pm to
You have experience in oil and gas?
Or have Cdl with x endorsement?
Posted by Hogs78
Arkansas
Member since Feb 2019
963 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:49 pm to
Take the jobs away from white males and this country fails immediately. Id like to see a pro or college football or basketball game minus every white male.
Posted by jnethe1
Pearland
Member since Dec 2012
16143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:52 pm to
Well just take a look at how well the entire continent of Africa is doing without white men....
Or Haiti
Or Jamaica
Or the Middle East
Or Central America
Or South America
Posted by beulahland
Little D'arbonne
Member since Jan 2013
3566 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:53 pm to
Done some abstracting....
Posted by jnethe1
Pearland
Member since Dec 2012
16143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:54 pm to
quote:

Done some abstracting....

?
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71108 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:55 pm to
quote:

You have experience in oil and gas?
Or have Cdl with x endorsement?


Negative for both, but you know I'm #dedicated
Posted by jnethe1
Pearland
Member since Dec 2012
16143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:57 pm to
Damn right, can’t fault you there.
Posted by Hogs78
Arkansas
Member since Feb 2019
963 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:58 pm to
Punishment for being harder working and smarter. Dam what will these college loons think of next?
Posted by wareaglepete
Lumon Industries
Member since Dec 2012
10921 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:00 pm to
I have volunteer multiple times over the last 9-10 years to be a part of the diversity boards or diversity focus groups at work. I always get turned down.

Of course now, which I saw coming and was my reasoning for volunteering, these have transformed from boards and groups to full-on departments with VPs. I mean, a VP salary to go tell HR to hire the woman, black person, or foreigner? Easiest job ever.
This post was edited on 5/21/19 at 4:02 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
36994 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:02 pm to
quote:

I have volunteer multiple times over the last 9-10 years to be a part of the diversity boards or diversity focus groups at work. I always get turned down.



One of the things I have learned is that "diversity" doesn't mean "everyone".

It's insane.
Posted by kengel2
Team Gun
Member since Mar 2004
30666 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

Anyone else have any experience being passed over because of being a white guy?


Yes, but last year I learned that I can identify as whatever I want to.

Im going to the top, minority/gay/tranny/llwerqcr or whatever. And Im suing anyone that turns me down.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71323 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:35 pm to
quote:

White men in their mid 30s to mid 40s are completely screwed. We are paying for the sins of our forefathers, as the pendulum has swung the opposite way. Instead on ONLY appointing white men to positions like this, groups want to appoint EVERYONE BUT white men.

I'm all for diversity. That means, no one should get excluded based on their gender or race. That includes white men.

This may seem like I'm whining, and I probably am =) But it's frustrating to sit here and get attacked, constantly, on my "white privilege" when it sure starting to seem like not only is it not a privilege, but it's actually a handicap.

I feel like as a society, substituting one type of discrimination for another isn't going to end well.



I love it when people assume I got to where I was because I am a white dude. It ignores the depression, anxiety, multiple jobs at one time, and loneliness I deal with on a regular basis. They just apply a generic label to me while yelling that generic labels are patricharcial.
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