Home defense pistol recommendations update: bottom of OP

Never been one to go buy my own pistol, although I have shot thousands of rounds through my fathers 1911’s, Beretta Nano, and a good friends Glock.
I have a price range of $200-400 (looking for used).
I’m unsure what model Glock he has but I believe it’s a 19.
I have looked at a Springfield XD40 in .45 cal as well as a Glock 17 gen 4. Both looked to be in really good condition and in my price range.
Despite my father having a Beretta Nano in the army tan, I also am tempted to jump on that deal. Comes with the extended hand grip clip, tan, and probably the gun I’ve shot best over time because of the weight I assume.
What do y’all think about those 3 guns for home defense? I’m talking under my mattress type gun.
My 4th option is a Taurus .357 4” barrel which is actually what I wanted specifically but I feel it was priced high. $399 plus tax. Unless it’s a double action that seems steep. I’ll have to double check when shopping again.
I prefer a revolver because 1. I don’t need 9-11 shots to shoot an intruder 2. It will shoot EVERY time I pull the trigger. No jams. That’s my biggest concern with a semi-auto.
Is the Nano pretty strictly concealed carry or would it be fine in a in home situation?
Should I stick to a full size?
Caliber preferences?
The Springfield is easily my top choice but I want some more opinions.
My question for every gun is if I shoot it 1000 times, how many aren’t hanging up.
Thanks for any and all help guys
LONG UPDATE
Update : expressed my fears of a hooligan or anybody lurking around my house and how I had once heard my Lab absolutely lose it in the middle of the night and there I was, defending myself as I peek outside holding a 32” baseball bat in one hand and my dick in the other. I was screwed if anything happened.
Told him I liked some .357 revolvers I had seen and I had decided if I got one I’d shoot a .38 +P bullet. He walks to the safe, grabs a Rossi .38 double action that I start remembering I shot at a fleeing the trap raccoon with that gun as a youngin. He explains how he acquired it, somebody had let the double action get gunned up and he and my uncle stripped it down moved some things around and it’s a shooter. I said “....well I’m not sure I want to protect myself with a gun that you got because it didn’t work...” he quickly agreed.
He then grabs his literally new Glock “well look at my glockwithout a bullet through it”. This man found some sale at Academy during hunting season for a Glock 19 in .45acp & a heritage rough rider .22, for around “$500” he estimates he got the glock for about $300 new minus the .22. I nearly shite myself.
He finally asks, well, what do you feel the most comfortable with? Told him I really shot best with the Beretta Nano and a Remington 1911 we’ve had for a few years. He quickly reminded me how much that 1911 cost him (I was there when he impulsively bought it), and went and grabbed the Nano, chambered one up, holstered it, and handed it over and said “just start squeezin’, got 8 in it.” As I walked out the door, he finished with “if I ever see that damn gun dirty or it gets stolen, you better start buying guns because every one in that safe will go to your nephew” .....well thanks Dad..
Reupdate: went and shot the Nano. I’ll just say: I wouldn’t want to be getting shot at by me.